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The Expression of Love
We don’t always express love. You may always feel it, but expressing it requires acts – both subtle and overt – that transmit your feelings and lead the other person to be happy. Open up and be more demonstrative if you want the one you desire to stick around.

Love is Intending Happiness
We want to make those we love happy, feel cared for, and fulfilled. We take actions to ensure those conditions in them. Sometimes this means putting your own agenda second. You do so because you feel ecstatic about seeing your loved one shine or excel. If you’re getting a lot from a relationship, you simply must give something back – and what you need to give isn’t always what you want to let go of.

Love is Accepting
This means you accept the person for who they are. You don’t just think they’re “okay,” you enjoy who they are – quirks and all. In an ideal situation, you have few conditions on your love. If your love is conditional, it ceases as soon as the person steps outside of a narrowly defined set of circumstances. People with lots of complaints in a relationship aren’t truly loving. If you have lots of complaints in your relationship, you’re dooming it.

Love is Appreciating
One step beyond acceptance is appreciation. This means you enjoy the person and all the physical and character traits that make them unique. You focus on their joy, their insights, their humor, and their companionship. Don’t you realize this person is a gift that’s been placed in your life? Treat this gift shabbily, and it will be taken away in true cause and effect fashion. The universe will give you just what you’re really asking for.

Attention One of the most common methods of expressing love is to give someone your attention, whether to listen to them, spend time with them, or do something kind or important for them. We touch them through affectionate or sexual means, as well. We can share thoughts and feelings, trade ideas, or even help with a chore.

Aside from all the evidence of love in art and philosophy, psychology has divided love into three components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Ancient wisdom has even called love a high form of Tolerance – a view that seems to fit all the scholarly criteria.

Certain types of love can involve compatibility, but certainly not all. Many children are not compatible with their parents, but are loved nonetheless. Romantic love is uncertain when discussing compatibility. You have to think in terms of the relationship and the feelings as a whole – and how you can make each other happy. You can’t focus on the most immediate gratification for either party. Love is a constant process, though. Be with the one you love, share your joy, and encourage his or hers.

Always be there for each other. To love is to step totally outside your comfort zone sometimes, just to give the gift of joy to the one you wish to keep close. Fail to be flexible or forget to bite your tongue more times than you currently do, and you will lose the world’s most blessed gift: the love of a special someone.

Excerpt from
CONFESSION #04 - WHY WE LOVE & NEED LOVE (pg. 13/14)


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RAMBLINGS OF A CREATIVE MIND
*
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love.
But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer,
not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer.
To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer.

But suffering makes one unhappy.
Therefore, to be unhappy one must love,
or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.
I hope you're getting this down."

- Woody Allen

12. Jan. / 09. Nov. 09

Love the one you`re with

One definition I like says that loving kindness is “a practice that helps cultivate our natural capacity for an open and loving heart. It is meant to enrich compassion, joy in the happiness of others and equanimity.

These practices lead to the development of concentration, fearlessness, happiness and a greater ability to love.”

Most of my life loving kindness came easily outside of me, but there were days when it all was a struggle. There were times when I found it’s easier to help and love others and totally forget about myself for a while. Marvelous years were when I was in flow and felt genuine warmth and kindness toward "all" creatures and beings. During those times, love seemed less like an emotion and more like a force of life; it flew in and out of me as easily as the air I breathe.

After two heavy near-death-experiences (2004 /2006) I finally had to face some important truths about my heritage and - "the shadow", referring to C. G. Jung, you know what I´m saying with this, yes? For some good 18 months I was forced to walk through hades, rise to heaven, walk through hades, rise to heaven again and again - literally speaking - until I finally was able, with the endless love and help of three human guardian angels, fueld with limitless power to really face and dismiss the hollow (invisible) troubleshooters out of the house I own, partying behind my back. No returning possible, guaranteed.

My heart and soul are now in peace, my mind and body are at ease and - endless love now flows again out of me like never before. I am so thankful words cannot express.

Let me share my life-long-lasting wish i have for every living creature and for you:

Please, let no one ever come to you without leaving (feeling at least a little bit) better and happier than before. Be the living expression of the best you´ve got.

Please see, you are the living expression of God's and human most possible compassion, passion for life and true kindness: yessa, there it is, I can see it now: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.

God bless you and yours!
04. Jan. / 15. Mai 2009

Luther Vandross:
Love the one you´re with

There's a Rose
In a fisted Glove
and the eagle flies
with the dove
and if you can't be
with the one you love
it's alright

Go ahead and love the one,
love the one,
love the one your with
love the one,
love the one,
love the one your with

If your guy can't come to you
and you don't remember
who your talking to
your concentration slips away
because your baby,
she is so so far away

[Chorus:]
And there's a rose
in a fisted glove
and the eagle flies
with the dove
and if you can't be
with the one you love
love the one your with
Don't be angry
don't be sad
Don't sit cryin'
for good times you had
There's a girl right next to you
and she's waiting
for something to do

[Chorus:]
Do it
do it
do it
Turn your heartache into joy
She's a girl and your a boy
get together, make it tonight,
you ain't gonna need no more advice

[Chorus:]
Just love the one your with

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15. Mai // 08. Nov. 2009

Soft Moon Shining

Poems for the Mother of the Universe - The Goddess

Soft Moon Shining is an invitation to step into the heart of the Divine Mother - the Goddess. Her perpetual dance of cosmic bliss plays out through the eons as the creation and dissolution of worlds within worlds. Yet God, in the feminine form of the Mother - as the Absolute made Immanent - is ready to shower Her love and affection on any who care to turn their gaze toward Her fiery heart. Written by Ethan Walker III.



Soft Moon Shining is a collection of 230 devotional poems and 60 illustrations that revolve around his relationship with the Divine Mother. Finding God’s Love is a how-to book exploring the theory and practice of the path of love and devotion.

Soft Moon Shining

My beloved Divine Mother
Dance with me
under the soft moon shining
in the wide open fields
far beyond the toil and trouble
of my busy mind

Dance with me
before the night grows old
while the winds of love
still bow the grasses
and the coyotes cry for you
to step their way

Dance with me my beloved
while the Mystery's Edge
still flirts in the shadow
of your radiant light

This work of poetry is both profound and beautiful in its ability to arrest the reader’s conventional mind, plunging the soul into the cauldron of divine intoxication and immortal bliss. Each poem is a meditation on the Mother of the universe. Feel Her love and Her compassion as the Divine Mother hugs each reader in an embrace of timeless love.

Dance with God in the form of the Mother! Revel in the call of the infinite! Swoon with joy as the heart opens wide to the roaring river of Mother love. Soft Moon Shining continues in the tradition of those great poets and lovers of God, Ramprasad, Hafiz, and Rumi.


About the Author:
Walker was a practicing counterculture hippie in 1967 at the age of 18 when he began to explore eastern philosophy and the European mystery schools. He spent two years in the Rosicrucian Order followed by four years under the tutelage of Mark Prophet, the founder of The Summit Lighthouse.

He studied, lived and worked at that organization as a renunciate. After the death of Mr. Prophet, Walker had an intense spiritual experience while studying the teachings of Ramana Maharshi. This prompted him to dedicate himself to the philosophy of advaita or non-duality and the practice of atma vichara or meditation on the formless Self. This culminated in a deep understanding of the nature of the ego.

A strong desire to be permanently get rid of the ego arose within him.
Shortly thereafter, Walker met his guru, Mata Amritanandamayi or Ammachi, the hugging saint, in 1988. Ammachi advised that practicing on-duality alone is dry, like eating stones. She directed him to practice the devotional path. She explained that non-duality is the goal and devotion is the means.

Walker’s devotional practices began with the Divine Mother as the point of concentration. At this stage he saw her as a benign, loving and compassionate Mother Mary figure. This continued for several years until he began to focus on the Divine Mother in the form of the goddess Kali who wields the compassionate sword of liberation. As his devotional meditations continued, he developed a close relationship with and absorption in Mother Kali. After several years of this, he began to see the Divine Mother in everyone and everything. All along this journey, Walker was guided by Ammachi.

Throughout this 35-year spiritual odyssey,
Walker has also maintained a deep interest in Buddhism with particular fondness for the Zen master Suzuki Roshi and the Tibetan tradition. Walker is greatly influenced by the Indian saints Ramakrishna and Nisargadatta Maharaj. Later in his practice, he pursued the study of Jesus, his life and teachings, and experienced deep devotion to the Master.

Inspired by the similarity between Jesus’ life and teachings
and the path of the eastern masters, Walker spent five years researching and writing The Mystic Christ. Walker is the author of two other books. These books and The Mystic Christ can be explored in greater detail at www.devipress.com. Walker was married in 1978 to his wife Marsha and has three children and two grandchildren.


13. Aug. 2008 / 06. Mai / 06. Nov. 2009

Inkarnations-Vertrag :-)

Sie kommen als Seele auf diese Erde.


§1
Sie erhalten einen Körper. Dieser Körper ist neu und einmalig. Niemand sonst bekommt den gleichen.

§2
Sie erhalten ein Gehirn. Es kann nützlich sein, es zu benutzen.

§3
Sie erhalten ein Herz. Die besten Resultate erzielen Sie, wenn Hirn und Herz ausgewogen benutzt werden.

§4
Sie erhalten Lektionen. Niemand bekommt exakt die selben Lektionen wie Sie oder kann Sie Ihnen abnehmen.

§5
Sie können tun, was Sie wollen. Alles, was Sie anderen antun, kommt zu Ihnen zurück.

§6
Eine Lektion wird so lange wiederholt, bis sie begriffen wurde. (Auch inkarnationsübergreifend)

§7
Dieser Vertrag ist für alle gleich. Es gibt keine Privilegien, auch wenn einige das behaupten (Handschriftliche Änderungen haben keine Gültigkeit.)

§8
Sie bekommen Spiegel, um zu lernen. Viele Spiegel sehen aus wie andere Körper.
Sie sind dazu da, Ihnen etwas zu zeigen, das in Ihnen ist.

§9
Wenn Ihr Körper zerstört wird oder aufhört, zu funktionieren, bekommen Sie einen neuen. (Es kann zu Wartezeiten kommen :)

§10
Der Inkarnationsvertrag läuft erst aus, wenn alle Lektionen zu einem befriedigenden Ergebnis geführt haben.

§11
Was befriedigend ist, bestimmen Sie!




PS:
Hinweise und Tips:

- Ziel ist es nicht, beim Verlassen eines Körpers möglichst viel Geld zu haben.
- Es gibt keinen Bonus für Berühmtheit oder Beliebtheit.
- Sie müssen sich nicht an den Fehlern anderer orientieren.
- Regeln sind dazu da, überprüft zu werden.
- Behauptungen anderer über das Ziel können Ablenkungen sein.
- Sie können nichts falsch machen. Es kann höchstens länger dauern. Zeit ist eine Illusion!
- Sie haben Zugriff auf alle Antworten über eine spezielle Verbindung in Ihrem Herzen.
- Alles innerhalb des Schulungsraums reagiert auf Herzensausstrahlung.
- Versuche, den Schulungsraum zu beschädigen, führen zu Einschränkungen.
- Niemand kann Ihnen die Verantwortung abnehmen.
- Gewalt führt niemals zu einer Lösung.
- Es kann nützlich sein, darauf zu achten, welche Situationen sich wiederholen.
- Drogen (legale und illegale) können die Wahrnehmung der Lektionen verfälschen.
- Nur, weil alle sich auf eine Weise verhalten, muss das nicht bedeuten, dass es richtig ist.
- Es gibt selten nur eine richtige Lösung.
- Sie können einen Antrag auf Vergebung stellen.
- Es gibt keine Extraklauseln für niemanden.
- Sie werden geliebt. (Auch wenn Sie in der Bronx oder Somalia sind.)
Alles andere ist Täuschung.
- Lektionen sind besondere Gelegenheiten, sich zu entwickeln und keine böse Absicht.
- Es kann riskant sein, seinen Körper und oder seine Seele anderen anzuvertrauen.
- Es gibt sowas wie den Heiligen Geist. Der flüstert manchmal wichtige Informationen in Ihre Ohren. Sogenannte Eingebungen. Lauschen Sie mal hin.
- Andere in der Entwicklung zu behindern, bringt keinen Vorteil.
- Sie bekommen (vorzugsweise während der Nachtstunden) Gelegenheit, Ihren Körper zu verlassen und zu reisen.
- Erinnerungen an Erfahrungen ausserhalb des Körpers werden nicht im Körper bzw. Gehirn gespeichert.
- Herumspielen an Ihrem Körper ist Ihr gutes Recht. An den Körpern anderer erfordert deren Einwilligung.
- Abgucken ist sinnlos!
- Wer Ihnen eine Lebensversicherung anbietet, ist ein Betrüger.
- Das mutwillige Beenden einer Inkarnation führt zu viel unnützem Papierkram.
- Wissenschaftliche Gutachten und heilige Schriften dienen der Verwirrung.
- Es geht nicht darum, Erster zu sein.
- Es geht nicht darum, cool auszusehen.
- Niemand macht in Ihrer Situation eine bessere Figur als Sie.
- Sie sind nicht der Einzige, der am Sinn des Inkarnationsvertrages zweifelt.
- Da Sie diesem Vertrag schon lange bevor sie diesen gelesen zugestimmt haben, ist es unnütz, sich darüber zu beschweren, dass Sie jetzt hier sind. Machen Sie was schönes draus - für sich und für die anderen. (Quelle verschollen)

(01. April / 21. Mai / 05. Nov. 2009)

Happy Earth-, Live- & Birthday :-)

We die daily - and awake again :-)

PART 1

Dying is only a marker between lives. We - the humans and spirits - are evolving towards immortality, in body, mind, organs, spirit.

life scientists discover daily deeply hidden hints in our cells and genes, e.g. lately announced was a gene that only needs to be clicked, activated, and parts of our body grow again, e.g. teeth, arms, bones.

it´s not only possible in the animals world,
the immortality code is in us, too - it´s so unbelievable, and wahnsinnig, it´s a secret told so often, the secret reveals its secret slowly to all of us, but people might die in shock physically - but hey, that´s the bridge to a new, mostly unknown but real state of living :-)

YES, we die daily when we go to sleep, it´s a little death zone we are flying through, we dream, sing in it, meet "ghosts", and many others "online" - saying: connected to the higher self or universal spirit.

You might have heard or read about astral traveling: our bodies stay at home while our soul/spirit flies to the twilight-disco ;-) exchanging news in precognitive states, learn how to slowly understand what bein psychic means in a parallel universe soul. That´s another social networking place besides Twitter etc. Enjoy your "incentive days" ;-) - yeah, laugh out loud.
Part 1 ~ 12. Jan. 2009


PART 2
There is an ancient Tibetan Buddhist saying:
"When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. When you die, you rejoice, and the world cries".

What is death, exactly, and what does it mean to us as we
are living? Throughout the world, death and the rituals that surround it are steeped in taboos. Death is celebrated, embraced and feared. Around death and the dead, cultures put in place diverse restrictions and practices associated with clothing, food and ritual.

For the Roman Catholic Church death is the "complete and final separation of the soul from the body". However the Vatican has conceded that diagnosing death is a subject for medicine, not the Church. In 1957 Pope Pius XII raised the concerns over whether doctors might be "continuing the resuscitation process, despite the fact that the soul may already have left the body."

Some Orthodox Jews, Native Americans, Muslims and fundamentalist Christians believe that as long as a heart is beating--even artificially, you are still alive. Followers of religions like Zen Buddhism, and Shintoism believe that the mind and body are integrated and have trouble accepting the brain death criteria to determine death.

The Tibetan Book of the Dead, whose actual title is "The Great Liberation upon Hearing in the Intermediate State" or "Bardo Thodol", is ostensibly a book describing the experiences to be expected at the moment of death, during an intermediate phase lasting forty-nine days, and during rebirth into another bodily frame. The Bardo Thodol is a guide that is read aloud to the dead while they are in the state between death and reincarnation in order for them to recognize the nature of their mind and attain liberation from the cycle of rebirth.

Some think, however, this book is merely the esoteric framework which the Tibetan Buddhists used to cloak their mystical teachings. The language and symbolism of death rituals of Bonism, the traditional pre-Buddhist Tibetan religion, were skillfully blended with Buddhist conceptions. The esoteric meaning is that it is death and rebirth of the ego that is described, not of the body. Either way, or perhaps for both, the death/rebirth process is examined.

A graduate of Columbia University and Yale Medical School, Brian L. Weiss M.D. is Chairman Emeritus of Psychiatry at the Mount Sinai Medical Center in Miami. He has written many books on reincarnation, and maintains that we have all lived past lives. All of us will live future ones but at some level time probably does not exist. All lives might be occurring simultaneously. He thinks that what we do in this life will influence our lives to come as we evolve toward immortality. This would make death more of a marker between lives.

Written and shared by Molly Brogan
Source: "Conversations with Chris Bernard"

1. Would YOU love to be physical immortal?
2. Or do you prefer a new body for every reincarnation / reborn-time?
3. What do YOU think about the theory saying parallel universes do exist?
4. What, if WE could merge our thoughts with the ones of a "Prime Creator" (God)?

Alice in Wonderland had a "Wormhole" - Pardon? Yep. Sit back and watch some truely challenging Quantum Energetic and Healing Science News on film. Es bleibt weiter spannend - how exciting our lives are ;-)

1. Would YOU love to be physical immortal?
2. Or do you prefer a new body for every reincarnation / reborn-time?
3. What do YOU think about the theory saying parallel universes do exist?
4. What, if WE could merge our thoughts with the ones of a "Prime Creator" (God)?

05. Mai / 04. Okt. 2009

Kalil Gibran: Von der Liebe

Wenn die Liebe dir winkt, folge ihr,
sind ihre Wege auch schwer und steil.

Und wenn ihre Flügel dich umhüllen, gib dich ihr hin,
auch wenn ihre Stimme deine Träume zerschmettern kann,
wie der Nordwind den Garten verwüstet.

Denn so, wie die Liebe dich krönt, kreuzigt sie dich.
So wie sie dich wachsen lässt, beschneidet sie dich.
So wie sie emporsteigt zu deinen Höhen und



die zartesten Zweige liebkost,die in der Sonne zittern,
steigt sie hinab zu deinen Wurzeln und erschüttert sie
in ihrer Erdgebundenheit.

Wie Korngarben sammelt sie dich um sich.
Sie drischt dich, um dich nackt zu machen.
Sie siebt dich, um dich von deiner Spreu zu befreien.
Sie mahlt dich, bis du weiß bist. Sie knetet dich,
bis du geschmeidig bist; und dann weiht sie dich
ihrem heiligen Feuer, damit du heiliges Brot wirst
für Gottes heiliges Mahl.

All dies wird die Liebe mit dir machen, damit du die
Geheimnisse deines Herzen kennen lernst und in diesem
Wissen ein Teil vom Herzen des Lebens wirst.

Kalil Gibran (Ausschnitt)
03. Okt 2008 // 02. Nov.2009




lies weiter:

1. Wellness für die Liebe: Können Seelen einander im Traum begegnen?
2. Geistige Nahrung: Gib ihr eine Chance, Deiner inneren Ärztin :-)
3. Gedicht: Inneres Reinemachen
4. Ein Märchen
   
5. Rezension: Die Muschelöffnerin
6. Prüf´ mal Deine Glaubenssystheme
7. No is No!
8. Joyce Meyer: Battlefield of the Mind
9. Traumdeutung
10. Letter of Intent: I´ve broken free...

~ Mit seinen Augen sehen ... ~

hey, did you happen to see the most beautiful girl in the world :-)
~ look at her through his eyes ~

Mit seinen Augen

HAUT DOCH AB
ODER MACHT EURE WITZE
SAGT VON MIR AUS,
SIE IST UNSCHEINBAR UND KLEIN
MEINETWEGEN GLAUBT DOCH,
WEIL ICH HIER MIT IHR SITZE
MUß MEIN GESCHMACK
TOTAL DANEBEN SEIN

SIE SITZT NICHT VOR DER GLOTZE,
WILL LIEBER SELBST WAS MACHEN,
ICH KOMM MIR RICHTIG GRÜN VOR,
WAS DIE ALLES WEIß
UND DANN LÄßT SIE EINFACH
IHRE AUGEN LACHEN
UND MIR WIRD IRGENDWIE -
KALT UND HEIß

IHR MÜßT SIE NUR EINMAL
MIT MEINEN AUGEN SEHN
DIE ABSOLUTE FRAU
IHR WÜRDET MICH VERSTEHN
WAS SIE MIT MIR MACHT IST GUT
UND SIE LACHT MIR IHREN MUT
GRAD SO INS GESICHT
DA DENKSTE ECHT -
DAS GIBTS DOCH NICHT!

'NE DURCHGEMACHTE NACHT
WIRD NICHT MIT ROUGE VERDECKT
SIE HAT IHR'N EIGNEN STIL
HÄLT NIX VON SELBSTBETRUG
WENN SIE WAS VON DIR WILL
DANN SAGT SIE´S GANZ DIREKT
SIE IST NICHT ANSPRUCHSVOLL
UND KRIEGT AUCH NIE GENUG

IHR MÜßT SIE NUR EINMAL
MIT MEINEN AUGEN SEHN
DIE ABSOLUTE FRAU
IHR WÜRDET MICH VERSTEHN
WAS SIE MIT MIR MACHT IST GUT
UND SIE LACHT MIR IHREN MUT
GRAD SO INS GESICHT
DA DENKSTE ECHT -
DAS GIBTS DOCH NICHT!

SIE LEBT JEDEN TAG,
SO ALS WÄR'S DER LETZTE
SIE IST EIN VITAMINSTOß,
DAS CHAOS IN PERSON
ICH HAB GESPÜRT
ALS SIE SICH ZU MIR SETZTE,
WENN ICH HIER GEWINNE,
BIN ICH GLATT VERLOR'N.

(Lyrics & Song by Klaus Lage)

~ When the Night Spills ~

video & music ~ yummy :-)

Artist: Richard Taddei ~ http://www.richardtaddei.com
Vocal: Leslie Ritter ~ Words & Music: Leslie Ritter & Scott Petito

28. Sept. / 30. Okt. 2009