Donnerstag, 21. Mai 2009

~ HAPPY HIMMELFAHRT ~



WHO "simply" rose back to Heaven today ?
~ Well, let me try it with Stargate ~

Mittwoch, 20. Mai 2009

She out She


I´ve experienced enough. I´ve cut all the roots.
I am now Karma Free. Gods sacred Gift to Me.



exploring my mindsets (!) changed my life to
the very much better.

sliped out of malicious family brainchains.
freespirit is alive again.



~ Lighten up the Lantern of Your Soul ~


What You Were Made For

My friends, do not lose heart. We were made for these times. I have heard from so many recently who are deeply and properly bewildered. They are concerned about the state of affairs in our world now. Ours is a time of almost daily astonishment and often righteous rage over the latest degradations of what matters most to civilized, visionary people.
You are right in your assessments. The lustre and hubris some have aspired to while endorsing acts so heinous against children, elders, everyday people, the poor, the unguarded, the helpless, is breathtaking.

Yet, I urge you, ask you, gentle you, to please not spend your spirit dry by bewailing these difficult times. Especially do not lose hope. Most particularly because, the fact is that we were made for these times. Yes. For years, we have been learning, practicing, been in training for and just waiting to meet on this exact plain of engagement.
I grew up on the Great Lakes and recognize a seaworthy vessel when I see one. Regarding awakened souls, there have never been more able vessels in the waters than there are right now across the world. And they are fully provisioned and able to signal one another as never before in the history of humankind.

Look out over the prow; there are millions of boats of righteous souls on the waters with you. Even though your veneers may shiver from every wave in this stormy roil, I assure you that the long timbers composing your prow and rudder come from a greater forest. That long-grained lumber is known to withstand storms, to hold together, to hold its own, and to advance, regardless.

In any dark time, there is a tendency to veer toward fainting over how much is wrong or unmended in the world. Do not focus on that. There is a tendency, too, to fall into being weakened by dwelling on what is outside your reach, by what cannot yet be.
Do not focus there. That is spending the wind without raising the sails. We are needed, that is all we can know.

And though we meet resistance, we more so will meet great souls who will hail us, love us and guide us, and we will know them when they appear.

Didn’t you say you were a believer? Didn’t you say you pledged to listen to a voice greater? Didn’t you ask for grace? Don’t you remember that to be in grace means to submit to the voice greater?

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely. It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good.

What is needed for dramatic change is an accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing. We know that it does not take everyone on Earth to bring justice and peace, but only a small, determined group who will not give up during the first, second, or hundredth gale.
One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Soul on deck shines like gold in dark times. The light of the soul throws sparks, can send up flares, builds signal fires, causes proper matters to catch fire.

To display the lantern of soul in shadowy times like these
-to be fierce and to show mercy toward others; both are acts of immense bravery and greatest necessity. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it. If you would help to calm the tumult, this is one of the strongest things you can do.
There will always be times when you feel discouraged. I too have felt despair many times in my life, but I do not keep a chair for it. I will not entertain it. It is not allowed to eat from my plate. The reason is this: In my uttermost bones I know something, as do you. It is that there can be no despair when you remember why you came to Earth, who you serve, and who sent you here. The good words we say and the good deeds we do are not ours.

They are the words and deeds of the One who brought us here. In that spirit, I hope you will write this on your wall: When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not what great ships are built for. 



An Essay by Clarisa Pinkola Estes
04. Feb. 2009

Tell me what you think of this.
Is this what you were made for?

Quest ~ Wunderbild

How many faces do you find in this picture?
average ppl see 4 to 5

check your level

7-8 = really good
9 = astonishing
10 = awesome
11 = genius

If you are your authentic self ....


... you have no competitors :-)
(see the pic)



errr ....


Dienstag, 19. Mai 2009

~ Tweeters Unite - Grace of Charity


TWEETERS UNITE & BLOGGERS UNITE & BLIP.FM UNITE & @LL UNITE

~ Saturday JULY 4th 2009 ~


Let the world know: We are Powerful.
We will lift the veil and move more than 100 mio eyeballs -
just like Mr @
zaibatsu (*wink* ;)


Ashton Kutcher & Oprah used Twitter
to raise 1 Million $ for malaria relief efforts.

Letz get it on



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Your ARTICLE please submitt it here


Call for Papers and Ideas - Official Blog




Please hand in your articles, givts, shares, ideas etc.,
if possible, until Thursday this week.


Montag, 18. Mai 2009

~ Tu vas voir avec mes yeux....



"Mon amour, murmura-t-elle,
nous allons nous appartenir
dans un pays étrange que tu ne connais point.
Ce pays est celui des fous.

Je viens te dépouiller de tes sens vulgaires
pour t'en donner d'autres plus subtils,
plus raffinés.

Tu vas voir avec mes yeux,
goûter avec mes lèvres.

Dans ce pays, on rêve,
et cela suffit pour exister." 




Freitag, 15. Mai 2009

کاخ گلستان Rosengartenpalast - Der Seele Seele - کاخ گلستان



Der Frühling kommt mit Blüten allzuhauf.
Vor deinem Antlitz wallt die Rose auf.
Sieh, wie die Rose nach dir sehnend lacht!
Daher kommt ihrer vielen Farben Pracht.



Narzissen setzt du Kronen auf aus Gold.
Juwelenschmuck aus Wolken auf sie rollt.
Trägt Veilchen deines Klosters Ordenskleid.
Und senkt den Kopf so tief aus Trennungsleid.


Die Lilie will mit jeder Zunge loben Dich, Herr,
und trägt deshalb das Haupt erhoben.
Ihr Herzblut trinken Tulpen, die dich lieben. 
 
Die Wange bleich, ihr Herz blutrot geblieben.
Nach dir sehnend, ist verwirrt ihr Sinn.
Sie werfen sich in deinen Staub nun hin. '

Wie man dich auch beschreibt: es ist voll Fehle -
Gewiss weiß ich: du bist der Seele Seele.







Dschalaleddin Rumi begegnet Faridudin Attar (1136 - 1220 n.Chr.)
in jungen Jahren und wird von diesem in seine Lehren eingeweiht. Dabei bezeichnete er später Attar als seine eigene Seele; und er bekannte, dass er alles, was er über die Wahrheit sagt, von Attar gelernt habe. Außerdem urteilte er über ihn:
„Attar durchquerte die sieben Städte der Liebe, wir sind nur bis zur nächsten Straßenecke gekommen.“
14.01. / 15.05.2009

Time travels in reach - Zeitreisen bald möglich


Quest: Have Light traveled faster in the early days of the Universe - ?


The Story
A brilliant young physicist from Portugal, João Magueijo, asks the heretical question:
What if the speed of light— since Einstein invented the theory, accepted as one of the unchanging foundations of modern physics—were not constant?


His idea is that in the very early days of the universe light traveled faster—an idea that if proven could dethrone Einstein and forever change our understanding of the universe. He is a pioneer of the varying speed of light (VSL) theory of cosmology -an alternative to the more mainstream theory of cosmic inflation- which proposes that the speed of light in the early universe was of 60 orders of magnitude faster than its present value.

Solving the most intractable problems of cosmology in one brilliant leap, Magueijo’s varying-speed-of-light theory (VSL) would have stunning implications for space travel, black holes, time dilation, and string theory—and could help uncover the grand unified theory that
ultimately eluded Einstein.

Joao Magueijo's radical ideas intend to turn that Einsteinian dogma on its head. Marueijo is trying to pick apart one of Einstein’s most impenetrable tenets, the constancy of the speed of light. This idea of a constant speed (about 3×106 meters/second) -is known as the universal
speed limit. Nothing can, has, or ever will travel faster than light.

Magueijo -who received his doctorate from Cambridge, has been a faculty member at
Princeton and Cambridge, and is currently a professor at Imperial College, London- says: not so. His VSL theory presupposes a speed of light that can be energy or time-space
dependent.




In his first book, Faster than the Speed of Light,
Magueijo leads laymen readers into the abstract realm of theoretical physics, based on several well known, as well as obscure, thinkers. The VSL model was first proposed by John Moffat, a Canadian scientist, in 1992. Magueijo carefully builds the foundations for a discussion of Big Bang cosmology, and then segues into the second half of the book, which is devoted to VSL theory.

Like most radical, potentially seminal thinkers, Magueijo shakes the foundations of the physics community, while irritating off many of his fellow scientists. VSL purposes to solve the problems at which all cosmologists are forever scratching: those inscrutable conceptual puzzles that surround the Big Bang. Currently many of these problems have no widely accepted solutions.

shared by The Daily Galaxy - Author: Casey Kazan.
06. Jan. / 15.05.2009



What do YOU think?

Could Einstein be wrong and Magueijo right?
My beloved Astra-Travelers, have your say!


Donnerstag, 14. Mai 2009

Tweeters Unite - Yes, we will :-)


My all dear veryheavens!On Valentines Day 2009 my new idea was born: Tweeters Unite! for charity and many other good causes. Event date will be July 4th - the international day of the kiss :-) I am totally in love with the idea and really crazy about it. Well, how does that sound to you?

We are looking for partners, sponsors, cooperations e.g. amnesty germany, amnesty international, peta etc. and we are looking for blog authors, visionaries, ideas, people who would love to spread the word and people who love to utilize this platform and it´s growing network for their personal, international, special interests.

See our four latest charity posts:


We are still in progress - fire us with your suggestions, ideas - most welcomed !! Please join our two networks - veryheaven is founder of both.TWITTER

  1. @tweeters_unite
    (tweeting in progress)
  2. @veryheaven
    (tweeting started)

We publish News etc. in these BLOGS -

  1. Join the Event on Tweeters Uniteon bloggersunite.org
  2. Tweeters Unite Blog
    (offspring of veryheaven)
  3. veryheaven ouverture Blog
    charity, poetry, coffee & coaching to go
  4. veryheaven united Blog
    on NING no longer availabe (open studio - feature yourself)

If you´d like to stay informed, please subscribe to our feeds for news and announcements on Tweeters Unite - go 4 all 4 :-)

  1. Join our Event, write articles, share ideas, visions, suggestions at
    Tweeters Unite on Bloggers Unite
  2. FEED from Veryheaven Tweets (started)
  3. FEED from Tweeters Unite (in progress)
  4. FEED from Veryheaven at Blogcatalog
  5. FEED from Veryheaven at Facebook

Yeah, two people joined 2day on our event promotion platform bloggers unite
- we happy :-)

  1. Zachary Wood - Marketer and Graphic Designer
    blog: http://uncertainlife.com
  2. Dawn Allen - Certified Love & Relationship coach
    blog: www.inspiredheartcoaching.com
  3. welcoming YOU tomorrow ;)


Thank You All, lovely people!
Yours, Cassie



On July 4th 2009 - the intern. Day of the Kiss - we Tweeters Unite :-)
write articles, share ideas, visions, suggestions, post pics, be creative.
14. Feb. 2009

New: Tweet Zine


Bestest Tweets by Veryheaven
~ Stream May 14th 2009 ~



~ Tweet Zine in Pictures ~
click to zoom out

It´s funky ... come in

Last night I´ve dreamt about some invisible but good looking guy who has bought me italian stringsandals for our marriage - I never intended to marry these days. 

I was wearing a georgeous cream white wedding dress, catwalking it in the hall of LoveFame, showing it to him. 

Then suddenly I ran away, hiding the dress in the wardrobe of my fathers house, thinking that maybe I´ll wear a different dress on that special day, in colour and cut. Not so strange, - marrying the only one, the romantic soulmate you cant hide from - you need to wear the right colours ;-)

Dienstag, 12. Mai 2009

Meine Katze liebt einen Vogel ~ My Cat loves a Bird

Lovestory in Bildern / Lovestory in Pics

*

Hey Süsser, du kannst echt gut picken!


Ich geb Dir auch eine paar Streicheleinheiten


Was zupfst du da bloß raus?


Sweetheart, von Dir werd ich gerne geknabbert.


Thank you Angelbaby!


08. Feb / 12. Mai 2009

Montag, 11. Mai 2009

Oh Yes, you are blessed!

The person who stands for nothing will fall for anything, so goes conventional wisdom, but the person who does stand for something–

whether it is the refusal to cover for fellow employees who cheat on their time cards, or has the conviction to abide by what he or she believes is right–will soon discover that everybody doesn’t appreciate that commitment to decency. It makes them squirm to have such a one in their midst. It’s true that people do love darkness rather than evil because their deeds are evil.

You sit down at the lunch table with friends and the conversation goes dead, or they call you “deacon” or let you know in no uncertain terms that you are single because you are just too moral.

How do you respond? In some cases the hostility is more emotional than physical, but in other situations, you find yourself as a target of even physical hostility you don’t deserve because you choose to do right.

When that happens, do you rejoice, saying, “Thank God, He counts me worthy to take the rap”? Or do you quietly think, “This is what I get for being so goody-goody.”

When Jesus taught the multitude in the Sermon on the Mount, He addressed this issue, as old as the sons of Adam and Eve and as contemporary as the morning newspaper. He said, “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you” (Matthew 6:10-12).

How should you respond when you become a target of hostility or persecution for doing right? The following guidelines will help.


Guideline #1: Pray for your enemies.

That’s the advice that Jesus gave His disciples. Strangely enough, the fact that some may persecute or ridicule the one who does right is often a sign of the conviction which is the result of God’s working in their lives. Do you remember that the archenemy of the early church–Saul of Tarsus–ended up being the Apostle Paul?

Guideline #2: Realize that Satan is using those who oppose you.

At the same time, be on your guard. Don’t let the enemy get to you through his troops. Go back to passages such as Ephesians 6 which tell you how to oppose the opposition of the enemy and stand strong and true.

Guideline #3: Remember that nothing is forever.

When my brother asked to place Gideon Bibles in a school, the principle sternly told them, “Over my dead body,” and turned them away. But two years later, the man died of a heart attack and they quietly went back and asked his replacement who gladly gave them permission and thanked them for it.

Guideline #4: Rejoice and be glad.

Rather than thank God for the persecution, thank Him that His grace is sufficient for your need and that He will sustain you and strengthen you during this difficult time. Never forget God has his pay day someday–for you and for those who persecute you. Far better is it to be on the side that loses the skirmish but will win the war than to be on the side of those who win the skirmish but will lose the war.

No one welcomes hostility or persecution for doing right, but, nonetheless, the fact endures, you are blessed and accounted worthy of the kingdom of heaven. Yes, blessed are you!

Written and shared by Dr. Harold J. Sala

Logo "Children of the King"
by Calvin Hanson

Sonntag, 10. Mai 2009

Lets get togehter ~ I love you

video sandartist´s art:


If I could paint my feelings in the sand right now...
I long so much to be at our heavenly beach ....
Here´s my dream - sandpainted by a givted artist.












17. Feb. / 10. Mai 2009

Let Go of Anger ~ Recieve Bliss

Do you realize how much energy it takes to be bitter or hold a grudge? We only have a certain amount of energy for each day. If we use it for the wrong purposes, focused on the negative, dwelling on who hurt us, we’re not going to have the energy we need for the right purposes. We’re not going to make the best decisions. We’re not going to be as creative. We’re not only doing ourselves a disservice, but we’re doing our family and our friends a disservice.


"Don´t let the sun go down while you are still angry."

Remember, you can’t control what people do or say. You can only control yourself. If you’re allowing others to upset you, then you are giving away your power. The Scripture says, “Don’t let the sun go down on your anger.” The reason many people have no joy or enthusiasm is because they go to bed every night with anger and unforgiveness.

When you go to bed like that, with a cluttered mind, focused on the negative, you wake up with the same negative emotions. Don’t let anger and unforgiveness block God’s blessing in your life. Choose to let those things go so you can live in the peace, joy, and power Our Lord and Our Mother has for you.

Healing Prayer for today
Heavenly Father and Mother, today I am releasing every negative thing that has happened to me. I am forgiving every person that has hurt me. I am forgiving myself for mistakes I´ve made and releasing every disappointement so that I can live in Your peace and victory.


Written and shared by a very happy couple ;-)
Joel & Victoria Osteen





10. Mai 2009
Happy Mother´s Day

Samstag, 9. Mai 2009

~ I Never Saw a Wild Thing Sorry for Itself !


Says D. H. Lawrence to the absent audience,
nipping at his mold whiskey in his writingroom -

The kitty cat lays on his legs listening to him as always,
enjoying the tender caressing fingers from her mastermind.
"That´s a thing like me", shekitty thinks.

Kittycat speeds up to the dressing-room - smack!
Kissing the mirror. Falls back on floor. Rolls over.
Miaus madly happy.


D. H. Lawrence now curious.
"Oh my precious Lord, why me."

Look at the picture :-)


And the Kitten spoke to the mirror:
"God has grant me the wisdom and knowledge to achieve my goals.

It is now my job to use the wisdom. Rrrroooaar."

~ written by veryheaven 09. Mai 2009 ~


PS:
At the mental level, I don´t think there´s
any sort of demarcation between us.


reposted 1000 requests thanks :-)

Freitag, 8. Mai 2009

Your very flesh shall have the richest fluency!


Wow, what a promise,
Mr. Whitman!


This is what we shall do - he says :-)

Love the earth and sun and animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence toward the people,
take off your hat to nothing known or unknown
...


re-examine all you have been told
at school or church or in any book,
dismiss whatever insults your own soul,

And your very flesh shall be a great poem and
have the richest fluency.
"

.Delicious
I follow.




Mittwoch, 6. Mai 2009

Love-Bible: 5 Tips to "truely" end it !

You know your friend- or relationship is unhealthy. You know your partner / mother / sister / chef is not for you. You know you need to get out. But is hurts. You feel conflicted, confused, dependent. You are not sure of yourself or your decisions. Or you have ended the relationship but feel stuck, knowing you did the right thing but not really getting over it. Here are five (and one extra special) specific techniques to help you end, truly end the relationship, get over the guy, and move on to a healthy and happy life.



1. Create a vision and hold it in your heart
The more you are clear what you want, the more your subconscious will take you there. Take some time each day to explore and clarify what a healthy relationship looks like to you. Allow yourself to imagine, day dream, and play with the idea of being in a good relationship where you are loved and cherished. How does it feel to be cared for? Can you imagine what it is like to have a man be supportive of your dreams; a guy who lives honorably and decently? Hold this image in your mind! Write down your thoughts, draw a picture, or create a poem... just make the image real and concrete to you.

What happens is, when your subconscious is convinced there is
something more, it will move you there and
release that which is unhealthy.

 
Here is a little technique that is often helpful. As you ponder your vision, play some music that is really inspiring to you. It must be uplifting and energizing... nothing melancholy here. But if you play this music as you envision your life and relationships, each time you hear the music it will naturally create the positive emotions that you have linked to the music.

2. Create a plan.
When you are feeling well, get a supportive friend or loved one to help you write down your plan for your healing. List those things you need in a relationship for it to be healthy. Create a statement that defines what a good relationship is to you. Get REALLY clear on how you can tell if a guy is a good man and worthy of your time and energy. Set some CLEAR boundaries. For example, you will not return a call from the guy; or you will no longer allow yourself to let him take even one minute of your energy; or you are done thinking about him, talking about him, or letting him in your life.

3. Nourish yourself.

OK, this is really important.
The stronger, more secure, more centered you are, the more you will be headed for a healthy relationship and a good man, and the less you will be willing to settle for something unhealthy or even hurtful. I can't emphasize this enough. What nourishes you? Think about this for a while. Often we go through life without taking the time to really know so really ponder this. What gives you feelings of peace, enjoyment, serenity? Of course pure joy doesn't come from outside ourselves but that which we take into our lives is what creates the environment for us to either flourish or wilt. List ten nourishing actions you can take. Often after difficult relationships end, a woman is left depleted, hurt, like a dried up flower left on a porch. For the flower to revive it needs sunlight, water... care.  

So now is the time to care for yourself.








After listing ten activities or experiences that nourish you,
decide to take these into your life. Make them a priority.
Invest in yourself.




4. Get rid of those memories.
This may be difficult for some until they learn how easy it is. We tend to hold onto the good times almost becoming dependent on our past. You may relive and replay over and over memories. Your mind may be so habitualized to the relationship that you are in a deep rut and your mind can't seem to get out of it. So you need to do some very practical techniques to create new pathways in your brain to heal.

As a hypnotherapist we often use what is called a "thought stopping" technique. It is simple and yet very powerful. Here is how it works: the minute a memory or unwanted thought comes into your mind, you consciously tell yourself you do not want those thoughts and bring an image into your mind to cancel them out. You could imagine a big circle with a red X though it, or maybe an eraser erasing the thought on a black board, or a tide coming in and wiping out words on a beach.. whatever works for you, find an image to erase the thought and memory.

Then, you "change your state". This is another technique that works REALLY well but can be sort of silly. Whenever you find yourself in those moments of pain and anguish, you do something crazy or wild to change your state of mind. What happens is, by doing a really odd or silly behavior you actually break the emotional rut that is in your brain.

Typically, when we feel down or blue we get stuck and almost hold onto the negativity, but if in that state you got up and did twenty jumping jacks, you would notice it is difficult to remain sad. Or, if you are wallowing in sorrow, you did a somersault or cartwheel, made a clown face or poured water on your head, you would feel so silly, most likely you would laugh and immediately break the cycle. In time, (often very quickly) the pathway is broken, and you will find your mind no longer holding onto the habit of returning to the painful memories.

5. Create a mantra
This is another fun technique to help move on. You come up with a little lyric or funny mantra to say to yourself every time you notice you are headed towards going back or reliving a memory. Play with it, get your friends to help you think of something funny. You memorize it, put it on sticky notes all over your house, write in on your mirror, and say it every time you need to remind yourself to get over it, move on, and live a healthy life. To sum it up, take care of yourself, create your life the way you want it to be, do everything you can to break those cycles of memories and negativity. Become as strong and centered as you can. Bring into your life all that brings nourishment and health.


Now, after you have done all the above I have one last little secret trick for you. Well, it is not actually a secret but it is a very powerful technique to help with your healing.

Take out a piece of paper and fold it in two. On the first half of the paper, on the bottom or top write today's date. On the second half of the paper write the date you are going to feel well and happy again. OK, now, draw a picture on today's side of how your feel today. Draw anything that can help you describe or demonstrate how you feel.

Then, on the other side, draw something that will help you visualize how it will feel when you are happy and over the relationship. Really make it vivid. Draw flowers or sunshines or stars and hearts or whatever comes to you; make the picture beautiful and bright and alive.
Now, hang up the picture where you will see it everyday. Guess what? You are going to feel well and healthy on the date you wrote down. Just you wait!


Wishing You lots of Self-love!
Written by Jennifer Jones



~ 06. Mai 2009 ~

continue inside veryheaven:
  1. "A Respectful Credo for Healthy Relationships"

  2. You can heal yourself and your Love if you want to.
    One easy and very deep reaching way is: Playing cards :-)
    Chuck Spezzano presents an exciting new tool for self-discovery: A deck of beautifully illustrated cards that depict various emotional situations and dilemmas. Combining the insights of psychology with the interactivity of tarot, this unprecedented package will be a revelation for spiritual seekers everywhere.



Dienstag, 5. Mai 2009

~ Is Love measurable?


I would do anything to make you happy!  
That´s what he told her. Am I reading a claim in it? Jesus Christ, then start today!
How wonderful this would be, if it would be true.


I suppose, not only the "term" LOVE nowadays experiences a lot of abuse, people violate love, rape in love, beat in love, push you to success in love ... not only lovers claim their stakes :-) In many lovesongs "disappointed" or angry or greedy musicans moan: give me back my love, all i want is you ,i can make it alone, was she worth it (the affair).
Millions of people grain about the misconceptions of their socalled love to their mates.






You all agree to love yourself first - okay. What about the idea, to let someone "just" love you?


Why don´t we cherish their love for us by throwing bucks of Euros and Dollars on them, spending all the money we have on those who (we) love (us)? Is money such a bad thing to recieve for something so very special?

Everybody pays for juwelery, fashion items,wellness, travels, dinners, crafts from "no-knowns" and than say proudly "hugh, it had to be so expensive because....she/he does everything to meet my needs".

So what the hack is wrong with spending all my money on my love? You pay a coach for a succesfull getting-through-the-valley session € 1000.-- per hour for its convenient advice, 

you pay for your bank account, you make schulden just to own a fancy car ...


Quest: Is Love measurable?
And if not, (how) do you honor someone´s love to you? 
How do you express your love to the
"one and only" - if s/he is a dream come true?


Because love is so precious, shouldn´t it be measured and honored by the lover and the beloved one? People should know "their value of love" in comparison to others - in my life I have seen couples completly freaking out, when it was their turn to give back.


There are many many spiritual and earthly ways to express and worship the love we receive - and those love-lovers show their dignity and respect in various ways: a creditcard-share, an amazon lifetime account, a car, a smile, a candle-ightdinner, a tender kiss on a bleading knee, a selfmade gift, an oilpainting, a surprising party, a delicous cake, one year free accomodation on a hut, a cosy weekend in bed...fantasy rules.

I think: People don´t consider enough what and when to return a favour to the giver. Some even refuse to accept anything in return - hey, I am your friend, it´s so normal. Well, I give myself. And there´s a lot I offer freely and especially when needed. I don´t care if I get (payed) back.



My all dearly beloved veryheavens,
for some reason "love" is everywhere in the air and on stage right now... It´s early May, cherry trees bloom, wild scents in the air tickling my nose, setting my spring desires free ;-) 

 

Read more on my discussion panel at Blogcatalog
blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/is-love-measurable

What do you feel, (free-) think, do?
05. Mai 2009


Montag, 4. Mai 2009

~ Radio Wild_Divine: Come on over ;)


Aloha Lovelies ;)
Musemonday on Twitter brought out some cool Tunes ~
So Treat yourself a groovy Listen with the latest 25 Blips out of 1.467 Blips -
smoooooches, right in the now :-)





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~ we are celebrating the @wild_divine lifestyle blip-by-blip and tweet by tweet ;)

Freitag, 1. Mai 2009

Editorial Mai 2009: Your Life Is Not For Rent



You have to stand up for your values and your beliefs. You own those things, no one else. Just because you enter into a relationship does not mean that you give away everything that you are. Take a long look at your relationship.
 
How much are you giving away?
Not only am I talking about posessions such as your money, your car, and your living space, but intangibles such as your emotions, your energy, and your beliefs. Throw in your time, your love and your trust, and it becomes a very empty situation. These are valueable things that we spend most of our adult lives building and refining. They make us feel secure and comfortable and when all the small pieces fit together, define who we are.

We need to understand the difference between sharing and giving away.
Of course we want to share the things we have with someone we love, but when do we start to give and give to either fill the percieved voids we think we see in others, or worse yet..to try and keep someone in our lives. Your life is not for rent. Your not going to let just anyone move in.

Two individuals that are whole and complete share all the wonderful things that they value with each other. They share stories and secrets.
They share experiences and dreams. They are building something very powerful together.
They learn so much from each other that they feel enlightened and happy. As each individual grows, the more they have to share with their loved one. This is the kind of relationship that's important to you and it's the kind of love that will last.

All to often, we give to try to make someone happy.
We give to show them that we care. We give because the better we get to know someone, we begin to see the imperfections we did'nt pay attention to when we fell in love. In a gesture to 'get back' to the way we felt about them when we were in the throws of love, we give to try and patch up the voids we see and to 'fix' the situation. This can seem basically harmless at first until we feel the drain. Financially, emotionally..it does'nt matter. We are pulling from ourselves to fill the holes we see.




I know we are brought up to care for people. Especially those we see that are not as fortunate as us. But you have to learn to say "NO." You can't fix people.
Why would we think that we can? It is up to them. If they really care, they will look inside themselves and find the strength to make changes. A beautiful, caring relationship is a rare thing. You know that. We spend a majority of our lives looking for that elusive unshakeable love.

If your partner does'nt see the beauty and rarity..they are not for you.
If being the best that they can be is not priority number one they are not for you. If you are too busy babysitting your partner's problems, issues, and feelings, you may be missing out on meeting the love of your life. Your relationship will be a disaster and it's going to hurt. And remember this...don't believe that you are so smart as to have all the answers to fix someone's life long problems. It is a struggle for trained psychologists to even begin to help, and that can take years of therapy with no guarantee of results. First and foremost, it is up to each one of us to address our own issues and find the help we need. Playing "Doctor" was fun when we were children, but it is a whole different ballgame now.

Your life is not for rent. You own it. All the good, and all the bad. It is YOUR life.
Stand up for yourself, your values, your beliefs, and your dreams. If someone who has'nt earned your love is trying to set up house in your life, just tell them " NO" .

Written & shared by Mr. Collin Martin
Relationship Artist and Expert


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01. Mai 2009
~ repost 2013 Aug. 28th after 2 yrs of absence ~ TY all for bearing with me